so the thing about relationships, at least for yoongun,

crzlove March 28, 2025 4:57 pm

is that to him friendship is always far prioritised above romance. he doesn’t really believe in relationships and it’s why he has that self-established rule of only seeking out FWBs instead of romantic partners. the fact he’s in love with kyuho has completely entirely bypassed him because of this — he’s aware how completely fond of kyuho he is and how much he wants him and wants him in his life, but because of how he interprets and prioritises relationships these are to him “minor reasons” & not enough to pursue a relationship because he simply doesn’t believe in them. having kyuho in his life as one of “his people” is good enough as a lifetime promise for him

honestly, if it wasn’t like, actively clashing with kyuho’s perspective it wouldn’t really be as much of a Situationship Issue as it’s become? everyone has their own perspectives of love & relationships, and if the person he fell for ended up feeling the same way about prioritising friendship over love it COULD work for him to keep going as he’s been… it’s just that kyuho does go all-in on relationships when he does have them, and it took both him & yoongun by surprise when he fell headfirst into things and yoongun now has to re-address how he feels about things in response to this. Which he does not do well. He wants that cookie so effing bad but doesn’t want to acknowledge it because he doesn’t eat sweets

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    escapist March 28, 2025 5:57 pm

    honestly i don’t think it’d actually work well even if kyuho was happy with the arrangement they have yoongun really does treat it as a traditional relationship in that he gets crazy jealous over even close friends, which he really doesn’t have the right to as “just his friend”, also him treating kyuho as “one of his people” but still keeping him separated and above others that he considers in his circle, all his actions are just so contradictory imo he really needs to recognise that kyuho is special to him in a way that doesn’t apply to anyone else in his life, he can’t treat him as his one and only whilst thinking that he’s one of many ig? but yeah, what a fascinating dude

    crzlove March 28, 2025 6:46 pm
    honestly i don’t think it’d actually work well even if kyuho was happy with the arrangement they have yoongun really does treat it as a traditional relationship in that he gets crazy jealous over even clos... escapist

    LMAO yeah i don’t think it could ever work for kyuho! i was more thinking of like…. in the sense of if the person he was seeing was someone else it might be able to work out for him, because his possessiveness seems to be very specifically localised To Kyuho. like even if he got attached to someone else he was sleeping with i don’t think it would have gotten like this & he would be fine continuing on as the situationship final boss without any problems.

    his view on love and relationships is fucking him ip so bad with this one specific guy because he knows he’s attached to him deeply & really IS possessive of him in a way he isn’t with anyone else but can’t see the forest for the trees in regards to it because he’s too focused on his view of love & relationships without being willing to rerout his approach! truly so fascinating. Ah, Yoongun.

    escapist March 28, 2025 7:01 pm
    LMAO yeah i don’t think it could ever work for kyuho! i was more thinking of like…. in the sense of if the person he was seeing was someone else it might be able to work out for him, because his possessiven... crzlove

    ahhh i see i see! truly such a complicated guy