Well no it makes sense, what he’s describing is aromantic meaning someone who can’t feel romantic attraction. It’s a well documented emotional state in the queer community. So while he saw Yoomin as more then friend/family, he couldn’t give her the kind love she wanted, only knowing how to cherish her and her love for him but the real problem is the fact that he never communicates this AND that fact that he started the relationship out of pity. Like who in their right mind dates someone for saving a family member, whether that savior had feelings for you or notbro is a jerk and I’m glad Yoomin did not give in.
Is that why today's translation was referring to him as they/them? Or was that a mistranslation? He said he is aromantic but feels desires so does that mean the only thing that can satisfy him is himself? but yeah yoomin is right he should've come clean about it. Personally after hearing his side of the story i don't even know what to feel about him, he didn't even do anything wrong and there is nothing to regret because that's just the way he is and he can't change things even if he wants to.. unless he suddenly starts to develop feelings for her, that is
the pronouns were definitely a mistranslation but what he’s talking about is sexual desire. So he’s sexually attracted to her but he’s unable to conceptize romantic feelings the way Yoomin or any non aromantic person is able too. Feelings like nervousness, excitement, irrational and impulsive emotion from seeing the one you like. I’m sure he still has the sense of fulfillment from being in her company but as far as the intensity of emotions you’d feel for a loved one goes, he didnt experience that with her. And don’t forget that the way we’ve seen him up until now has been from Yoomins perspective so any displays of “love” he showed her was what she wanted to see. In a way, yes he didn’t do anything bad but the way he approached their relationship was wrong, he went with the flow, not communicating how he felt, and giving Yoomin the bare minimum while she had no idea that her idea of romance was different from his.
No interesting content this week as well sob sob. Iseon's side of the story was just so weird. I can't believe someone would feel desires but never fall in love with someone, that just doesn't make sense. I would say he hasn't met his type yet, so he's def at fault for dating yoomin when he didn't even feel anything for her. What he described is what you feel for a friend/sister not your woman. Hyeondo yaa please come get your girl