Guys, aro ppl can feel devastated over a break up because it’s like losing a very close friend. The fact that he didn’t really give a shit can mean two things, it can mean he didn’t really give a shit OR he thought she still loves him and she will always love him and they will get back together so there’s no need to fret. Which is taking advantage of her romantic feelings for him. Which, wow, selfish aromance? Another thing is usually aro ppl find out they’re aro in their first relationship and they don’t mean to lead on their partner and feel at least a little bit bad about it when they break up telling them that. And whenever they enter a relationship next they usually tell the person beforehand because they want a relationship where both parties know what they are getting into and can set proper expectations. The thing here is Iseon KNEW he was aro before getting into the relationship so it is fucked up he didn’t tell her and led her on. Though one can say he gaslit himself saying it’s enough that he loves her the way he does, but I don’t think that’s ok because the other person can always tell something is wrong and has to deal and live with that by themselves to be with you. And if they love you enough they will. Which you can tell our mc did. Iseon probably knew it too on some level and was fine with her going through that. Selfish. Can you guys tell I’m crashing out by the number of comments I’ve written?
Guys, aro ppl can feel devastated over a break up because it’s like losing a very close friend. The fact that he didn’t really give a shit can mean two things, it can mean he didn’t really give a shit OR he thought she still loves him and she will always love him and they will get back together so there’s no need to fret. Which is taking advantage of her romantic feelings for him. Which, wow, selfish aromance? Another thing is usually aro ppl find out they’re aro in their first relationship and they don’t mean to lead on their partner and feel at least a little bit bad about it when they break up telling them that. And whenever they enter a relationship next they usually tell the person beforehand because they want a relationship where both parties know what they are getting into and can set proper expectations. The thing here is Iseon KNEW he was aro before getting into the relationship so it is fucked up he didn’t tell her and led her on. Though one can say he gaslit himself saying it’s enough that he loves her the way he does, but I don’t think that’s ok because the other person can always tell something is wrong and has to deal and live with that by themselves to be with you. And if they love you enough they will. Which you can tell our mc did. Iseon probably knew it too on some level and was fine with her going through that. Selfish. Can you guys tell I’m crashing out by the number of comments I’ve written?