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I agree with you they dated for six years and he was going to marry her without even telling her how he really fealt
Exactly, with that amount of time together it should have come up at least once //: even he said that he knew he couldn’t give her what she wanted and yet he continued on without telling her anyway
It def was a little irresponsible for him not to be clear about how he feels about romantic relationships/his aromantic identity. I’m not saying he had to come out to everyone around him, but there is a responsibility that does fall upon the Aro and/or ace person to clarify with their partner what the relationship is likely going to look like. Not that he had to do it immediately, but I personally make sure it’s one of the first things I tell interested parties so that they don’t become disillusioned/have a misconceptions of what a relationship with me will look like. I do hope he ends up finding someone who matches with him in that regard :c