Ian's mom

Oh so when your kid's friend collapse, NOW you actually act like an adult and a mother.
Seriously, I hope she has a serious wake up call and stop treating her own son like a crutch (and honestly almost like a parent ironically) to feel better about herself. Get help if you need it, you can rely on others or even on Ian, but you can't just expect him to completely carry you on his back to keep you afloat.