As a kinky chick that wants to be punished, I disagree.
lol we exist
Okay seriously though if a dom:
1. chooses your safe word for you. especially if it’s a safe word you don’t feel comfortable saying
2. doesn’t tell you the play you’re doing before the scene
3. insists on punishing you for something you don’t feel comfortable being punished for
4. puts you in a scenario where you feel forced to use your safe word or do something you really don’t want to do
5. makes you (even unintentionally) question if they love you or fear how you respond to a scene
you need to have a LONG conversation with them about fixing this or you need to run. some of these are red flags and some of these are blatant abusive/not safe sane and consensual
to clarify. I am a gay submissive bottom who practices kink IRL.
Dammit, you right. But I'm also in desperate need of a spanking and maybe not have been clear headed.
Oh boy you don't know a thing and it shows lmaooooo
like obviously the point of this story is for them to have a happy ending together. but oh my god if this was irl it would be a horror story. i would tell lyle to dump him on the spot and use his money to move to another country.