You sound experience. Did you meet a bdsm partner perhaps ? If yes, can I know how ? It's for a potential future.
Haha no unfortunately. I just happen to be very interested in BDSM and many of the sub-cultures of it so did a lot of research into it so I'd like to think I know a fair amount.
Exaaactlyyy. Anything like this can also be very dangerous for a new sub bc inexperienced people are known for getting emotionally attach to their first partner, and in BDSM often happens that the sub will push pass their limits to satisfy their partner. What you think will happen with a sub that's told to *use* a safeword like *this*?
This type of safeword for a newbie is an accident waiting to happen, emotionally and practically
I fear there are too many authors of Manhwa's who just don't understand BDSM relationships. ┗( T﹏T )┛
Good safe words:
- usually 2 syllables, preferably 1
- Completely breaks the mood
- Food items r pretty good too
Example:
1. Honk
2. Geese
3. Cheese
4. Pickle
5. Kool Aid
You know what's not a good safe word?
....A phrase. A phrase that could be said in the heat of the moment because BDSM is literally about having an EMOTIONAL CONNECTION AND TRUST with your partner. Just saying...