Stop blaming everything on Yohan

mansoattractive April 17, 2025 2:42 am

Are you all seriously comparing Yohan to Junwoo? Yohan would never seek attention through violence.

You’re spoiling the story in a way that makes it seem like everything is Yohan’s fault. His unpredictable mood swings are an unconscious form of manipulation.And just so you know, he has ADHD. When it comes to his family, he REALLY FELT UNLOVED. Maybe to others, it looks like a lie, but he craved attention and needed more than he was given, and from his perspective, that wasn’t entirely wrong. His family was like many wealthy families, too busy to truly care about their children. His family was also as unusual as the way Yohan presents himself. You should read the story because neither the main character nor the male lead has a perfect psychology, it’s complex, not necessarily wrong. It’s a fresh take on BL manhwa, and I truly appreciate that

Jun was thoughtless and careless, never asking Yohan anything before making assumptions and dragging him in front of his family. Even if he meant well, the way he did it made Yohan misunderstand and feel looked down on. Yohan already saw Jun as pragmatic and immature, obsessed with status at school - something Yohan never cared about or even tried to achieve. Do you see the issue here? Even when he was angry at Jun and deliberately ignored him at school, it was only meant as a “punishment.” He had no intention of using violence, despite being well aware of his influence at school. He just wanted Jun to back down first. But if Yohan is a black flag, then Jun is definitely a red flag, because Jun has a huge ego. Jun apologized but didn’t make any effort to reconcile, while Yohan, struggling with ADHD, couldn’t control his frustration and was always the one to reach his limit first. That said, he was never violent toward Jun, so please stop comparing Yohan to the ML in NZS

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