Oh no man. First Guwon now this. But I won't let Andrew's hand go yet. I do have faith in him. Andrew's came from a very fucked up family context, where his well being was only kept for looks and where attention was only given if he was in danger, just recall how he was raised by his awfully neglecting father and how he put Andy on danger several times just for his political agenda. So Andy even unconsciously done, might only understand that he is important (towards Luke in this case) if he is in some sort of danger bc he has been conditioned to act this way in order to survive in his surroundings. Awful shit but his brain works like that. So I agree that Luke might notice this eventually and scold Andy in his always caring and tender ways to stop him from getting these self harming episodes. Yeah, Andy shouldn't be doing this but it might be an opportunity for both of them to get even closer by solving this Andy trauma in a communicative way, Luke has enough emotional strength to do so fortunately. I wanna dream y'all I'm sick and tired of sus green flags that suddenly turn red for shock value ugh LET ME HAVE SONE HOPE
Oh no man. First Guwon now this. But I won't let Andrew's hand go yet. I do have faith in him. Andrew's came from a very fucked up family context, where his well being was only kept for looks and where attention was only given if he was in danger, just recall how he was raised by his awfully neglecting father and how he put Andy on danger several times just for his political agenda. So Andy even unconsciously done, might only understand that he is important (towards Luke in this case) if he is in some sort of danger bc he has been conditioned to act this way in order to survive in his surroundings. Awful shit but his brain works like that. So I agree that Luke might notice this eventually and scold Andy in his always caring and tender ways to stop him from getting these self harming episodes. Yeah, Andy shouldn't be doing this but it might be an opportunity for both of them to get even closer by solving this Andy trauma in a communicative way, Luke has enough emotional strength to do so fortunately. I wanna dream y'all I'm sick and tired of sus green flags that suddenly turn red for shock value ugh LET ME HAVE SONE HOPE