Phew where to start? 20’s is a roller coaster. Suddenly the world isn’t as clear anymore. Suddenly you’ve lost your sense of direction. Suddenly you’re old enough but still feel like a little kid exposed to the world. Suddenly it’s like everything is moving fast yet slow.
Suddenly it’s like you’re in the midst of people yet you’re alone. Suddenly you want to face the world yourself but you’re scared.
My advice to you is, it’s fine. Whatever plans you’ve had for yourself for a long time is going to get derailed, but remember, it’s fine. When you get lost, also remember, it’s fine. Don’t rush things, don’t panic, find something to ground yourself or connect to. Explore hobbies, it’s fine to pick up and drop as you go. Let yourself be more open minded, and when you find your way again, everything will definitely be better and clearer
Ok so i have 2 small jobs and i also study certain days. But i regret the bed rotting and doom scrolling i do during my free time. It required less brain and effort but I literally gave myself no time or room to explore a little, to be a little dangerous or adventurous.
I was and am a sucker for reckless ideas and adventure- since i was little i would do and find so many amazing things, places...
But i grew up...grew too comfortable in my comfort zone.
So basically- seize the day! I cant die knowing thats all my life is worth
Bad advice but free: Fuck around and find out
This is real asf
Try to have a schedule. It will become a habit eventually and it will help you a lot.
nah man I only just turned 20 but this relates so much
same here, idh any job and I don't have college atm since I'm preparing for a national exam which is in THREE WEEKS , but I wasted many months just bed rotting and scrolling unnecessarily the entire damm day like a maniac and now I'm facing the consequences whichh I well deserve
Be it regrets, or something I must definitely do, or something I should avoid doing, well whichever. Feel free to share your thoughts! (๑ت๑)ﾉ