I love the age gap, esp older uke, but tbh it kinda immoral to start smth with your student, cz his brain and good judgement are still under development and you are an authoritive figure for him. In general the younger one party is the less age gap i can accept. E.g. 30 & 40 is ok 15 & 25 is not ok at all. 20 & 30 is not that good either. It is just bz of power imbalance and diference in experience. So here the seme is about 18 so it is at least legal, but is it moral, dont think so. But at least he is top so it is more acceptable as it is a less vulnerable position. If it were other way round it would be just terrible.
I love the age gap, esp older uke, but tbh it kinda immoral to start smth with your student, cz his brain and good judgement are still under development and you are an authoritive figure for him. In general the younger one party is the less age gap i can accept. E.g. 30 & 40 is ok 15 & 25 is not ok at all. 20 & 30 is not that good either. It is just bz of power imbalance and diference in experience. So here the seme is about 18 so it is at least legal, but is it moral, dont think so. But at least he is top so it is more acceptable as it is a less vulnerable position. If it were other way round it would be just terrible.