age gap opinion

I think some younger ppl like older ones cuz for them, they think the older ones are mature enough and have everything settled in their life, like aim.. some just simply have preference ig and yes honestly even age gaps of 10+ works out in most cases... and some really dgaf abt age gaps that much idk from older perspectives tho

that is something i was thinking too, maybe maturity is something they find hot in older guys. i am into older guys too for the same reason but I feel not many understand why

I'm more worried about life later on for them if they end up in a serious relationship. Ahjussi gonna be the first to die and leave yuna all alone???

Yuan*

anyone can die anytime

This is where I'm wrong. I lost all interest in older guys when I met that guy(16 yrs difference) he sounds mature sure, but HE ONLY SOUNDS MATURE. Now I know age is not the basis of maturity...

As a straight girl, i dont think maturity comes with age to man. They are easily forgived "they're just big boys (even if they are 40+)", while young girls like 12yo have to be aware of their surroundings.
I dont like old dudes and not a fan of big gaps plots. But of course, I'm speaking from a pov different of lgbt one. Man tend to try to control you and it really sucks

u thought a lil wayyyyt too ahead lol
Don't stress out over that

Ik maturity ≠ age.. anyone who have enough experience can be mature enough to comprehend what's happening to them or their surrounding or what decision they have to make. Even a younger person or below 18 can act or be mature depending on the factors of what they have been through, how their mind works or how we're they raised like etc.. But Even normal straight ppl tend to go for older ppl... Ik most boys prefer either is someone younger to them, sometimes older than them = milf? , or sometimes just who they like whether young or old.. while "generally" girls in straight tend to find Older men more mature, who is stable like everything set on aim? (Idk how to describe it..) whether those older guy they find mature or not.. they just think the older ones are more mature than the younger ones maybe in terms of dating like experiences or maybe career wise... most of the times girls just don't like/prefee to date someone who is just younger than them for no reason haha its either their age or older than them... sometimes rare cases happens too but this was "generally.. "

Omg 16 yrs difference... I still don't know my preference if it's older ones or My age groups... I just definetly know it's NEVA going to be younger than me , i cant imagine datin someone younger than me in this lifetime lol not even 1 yr younger（/TДT)/

My uncle is ten years older than my aunt, and guess what she had kids at a young age ╥﹏╥ btw they’re still together

but aould you have dated him with a 16 year difference if he was actually mature?

Well yes. The age difference is my preference before. I find older men really attractive, but of course that's not all there is. Along with that age difference they need to be mature.(Hence why I don't usually date younger men because I have this mentally that they are immature but I'm wrong) After my relationship with that guy who basically gaslight me, lied to me without blinking and impregnate me, then treated me as his retirement plan. I left him during pregnancy.... I learned it the hard way...... Some older men dates younger women to be their retirement plan. First they'll bait you with their mature thinking and flowery words and views in life(all lies) and when you're hooked they'll trap you with a baby and then they would stop working and treat you like shit manipulating and gaslighting you so you won't leave them. But I saw right thru him tho it's a little late cause I was already pregnant. He probably thought I won't leave him. But nooooooo I'd rather be a single mom than stay with that guy

You're brave and courageous. I'm happy that you're able to get out of that relationship with determination because not everyone can do that.