I see the points of other people basically being mad about how Ash literally FORCED Lyle to admitting about the proposal.
But I can also see the reason why he would do it, they both experienced the bad ordeals that happened because Lyle, as sweet as he is, is bad at communicating when something is wrong. He keeps it in, piles those emotions inside, until he explodes from overthinking and do the unthinkable. As an individual who is very bad at opening up, IT'S NOT EASY, even of people say tell me when something's wrong and such— it is easier said than done. Ash is very vocal but Lyle is still learning and as obvious as it is he is still bad at it despite promising he would say tell Ash if something is wrong. It's not that easy to break out from the loop you conditioned yourself to and due to his upbringing this is proven as a difficult challenge for him.
Now looking at Ash's perspective, he very much so wanted to wait for Lyle to tell him what's wrong, but as his significant other and knowing his issues with communicating how he feels, I can understand why he had to 'force' him to say what is wrong. Now, I wouldn't justify that f*cking the truth out of him is right but if he knew that Lyle was planning to propose he wouldn't have done it either— as we all know guys LYLE IS BAD AT KEEPING SECRETS, he wears his heart on his sleeves in front of Ash.
For both of them, one that has no troubles communicating with what he feels and the other being an overthinker that has issues communicating when things are rough— you will see frustrations on both sides no matter what. As we have witnessed on Ash's ex, their relationship almost had another tension if Ash didn't become forward with Lyle running away.
I see the points of other people basically being mad about how Ash literally FORCED Lyle to admitting about the proposal.
But I can also see the reason why he would do it, they both experienced the bad ordeals that happened because Lyle, as sweet as he is, is bad at communicating when something is wrong. He keeps it in, piles those emotions inside, until he explodes from overthinking and do the unthinkable. As an individual who is very bad at opening up, IT'S NOT EASY, even of people say tell me when something's wrong and such— it is easier said than done. Ash is very vocal but Lyle is still learning and as obvious as it is he is still bad at it despite promising he would say tell Ash if something is wrong. It's not that easy to break out from the loop you conditioned yourself to and due to his upbringing this is proven as a difficult challenge for him.
Now looking at Ash's perspective, he very much so wanted to wait for Lyle to tell him what's wrong, but as his significant other and knowing his issues with communicating how he feels, I can understand why he had to 'force' him to say what is wrong. Now, I wouldn't justify that f*cking the truth out of him is right but if he knew that Lyle was planning to propose he wouldn't have done it either— as we all know guys LYLE IS BAD AT KEEPING SECRETS, he wears his heart on his sleeves in front of Ash.
For both of them, one that has no troubles communicating with what he feels and the other being an overthinker that has issues communicating when things are rough— you will see frustrations on both sides no matter what. As we have witnessed on Ash's ex, their relationship almost had another tension if Ash didn't become forward with Lyle running away.