So tired of LGBphobic straight people leeching on us because they are desperate to fill a ...

Jieun April 27, 2025 9:24 pm

So tired of LGBphobic straight people leeching on us because they are desperate to fill a moul that doesn't belong to them
And Hirano, he is either attracted to men or isn't, but isn't sure because of the stigma around same sex attraction + a teen (teens in general are unsure about whether they are attracted to the same sex or not)
Nothing to do with that aro-ace bullshit that attention seeker heteros call spectrum.
Typical mantra of LGBphobic people saying that LGB people choose their sexual orientation

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    grisfox April 28, 2025 7:48 pm

    I'm curious. Do you think that asexual or aromantic people don't exist? Or do you just not think they should be included in queer spaces? Also, do you have something against transgender people? Because why LGB?

    Jieun April 28, 2025 8:41 pm
    I'm curious. Do you think that asexual or aromantic people don't exist? Or do you just not think they should be included in queer spaces? Also, do you have something against transgender people? Because why LGB? grisfox

    Because you're genuine, i will explain it to you. Queer is a homophobic, racist and sexist label created by inecls and white supremacists who promotes porn and racist cultures for their fetishes. Putting aside the perverts and attention seekers, the rest if queers are just misguided straight people who want to fill a moul and category because they are desperate to be included and want labels for themselves.
    Aromatic is not a sexual orientation. There are only 3 sexual orientations: homosexuality, heterosexuality and bisexuality, and LGB people can be asexuals of course, so do straight people. But straight don't belong to LGB community.
    I have nothing against people suffering real gender dysphoria which is a rare mental illness. Those people need our empathy and help. But the rest of trans people are mostly straight men who are autogenephelics, women with internalized homophobia and misogyny and feteshize gay men, and gay men unable toaccept their same sex attraction, same for lesbians too.
    That's all.

    I know

    Jieun April 28, 2025 8:41 pm
    I'm curious. Do you think that asexual or aromantic people don't exist? Or do you just not think they should be included in queer spaces? Also, do you have something against transgender people? Because why LGB? grisfox

    Forget the "i know" that was a typo

    Jieun April 28, 2025 8:42 pm
    I'm curious. Do you think that asexual or aromantic people don't exist? Or do you just not think they should be included in queer spaces? Also, do you have something against transgender people? Because why LGB? grisfox

    Aro and asexuals people exist but it's bullshit and have nothing to do with LGB people, since we are attracted to the same sex

    grisfox April 28, 2025 8:50 pm
    Because you're genuine, i will explain it to you. Queer is a homophobic, racist and sexist label created by inecls and white supremacists who promotes porn and racist cultures for their fetishes. Putting aside ... Jieun

    Wow... umm. Don't you think it might not be very fair to impose indentities on people? Isn't it better to just let people have their own peace regardless of whether you think they are wrong in this case?

    Jieun April 28, 2025 9:45 pm
    Wow... umm. Don't you think it might not be very fair to impose indentities on people? Isn't it better to just let people have their own peace regardless of whether you think they are wrong in this case? grisfox

    Agreed with you on that.
    I am actually quite open about my thoughts regarding that topic which is why a few of my friends cut me off, but that's fine, and i don't think that aro aces and trans people who aren't autogenephelics deserve abuse and hate.
    To me, they are like religious people, i disagree with their ideologies but let them live as long as they don't invade women and LGB's spaces by imposing their rules and denying the importance of sex

    Jieun April 28, 2025 9:46 pm
    Because you're genuine, i will explain it to you. Queer is a homophobic, racist and sexist label created by inecls and white supremacists who promotes porn and racist cultures for their fetishes. Putting aside ... Jieun

    *by incels
    *the rest of queers

    Jieun April 28, 2025 9:48 pm
    Wow... umm. Don't you think it might not be very fair to impose indentities on people? Isn't it better to just let people have their own peace regardless of whether you think they are wrong in this case? grisfox

    I mean "agree with you on this"

    grisfox April 28, 2025 10:25 pm
    Agreed with you on that.I am actually quite open about my thoughts regarding that topic which is why a few of my friends cut me off, but that's fine, and i don't think that aro aces and trans people who aren't ... Jieun

    Hmm can you elaborate a bit on the last part? Personally, I'm a lesbian (although I am attracted to fictional men sometimes), and I find aromantic, asexual, and transgender people to be a sort of comforting presence. My college roommate last year identifes as a trans woman, and I found it to not really be different than living with any other woman. She was sort of bitchy, but I feel like that had more to do with her being an eecs major than anything else.
    And while I personally enjoy sex and romance, I can understand people not feeling the inclination and feeling ostracized because of that. I can remember growing up with the awful societal pressure of being told I'd have to marry a man, and I imagine asexual people struggle with this, too (even though they don't have to deal with the gay panic on top of this I guess). I think there are more benefits than downsides to being inclusive, and I think it overall saves more lives.

    Jieun April 28, 2025 10:39 pm
    Hmm can you elaborate a bit on the last part? Personally, I'm a lesbian (although I am attracted to fictional men sometimes), and I find aromantic, asexual, and transgender people to be a sort of comforting pre... grisfox

    Sure.
    Biological sex is like gravity and earth being round. Factual reality and objective reality unlike queer theories that are based on post modernism thinking and theories that hold no real basis realm of reality and science.
    What people often call "i feel like a man or women or none" are sexist stereotypes.
    For example " i feel like a woman because i love pink, makeup, etc". Woman isn't a feeling, it's a biological.
    Queer theorists can't even define what a woman is without resorting to a circular logic.
    And about your roommate, you shouldn't let males regardless of their sexuality, race, religion, etc., with you alone because most men are violent and untrustworthy.
    Please, be careful and it's better to get called a bigot than engendering and risking your safety.
    And about you being a lesbian yet attracted to fictional men, that's quite normal and that doesn't mean you can platonically love fictional men or real men like idols, celebrities and your friends because of their personalities and visuals.
    There is a difference between finding someone attractive and seeing them as a romantic and/or sexual partners.
    The majority of straight people find the same sex attractive.
    You are discriminated because you're both a woman and lesbian. Same sex attraction has always been frowned upon, unlike aro aces and straight asexuals who are pressured because they think that marriages = the default
    LGB people are seen as an abomination because of our attraction toward the same sex. We don't claim to feel like another gender. We are just attracted to the same gender without denying the root of bigotry, biological sex

    Jieun April 28, 2025 10:40 pm
    Hmm can you elaborate a bit on the last part? Personally, I'm a lesbian (although I am attracted to fictional men sometimes), and I find aromantic, asexual, and transgender people to be a sort of comforting pre... grisfox

    If you refer to LGB asexuals, it is just homophobia unlike aro aces and straight asexuals.

    Jieun April 28, 2025 10:41 pm
    Hmm can you elaborate a bit on the last part? Personally, I'm a lesbian (although I am attracted to fictional men sometimes), and I find aromantic, asexual, and transgender people to be a sort of comforting pre... grisfox

    Disagree with your last sentence because i am sex segregationist and can't deny the importance of biological sex.
    But i agree that we should be inclusive with other minorities such as pocs

    Jieun April 28, 2025 10:43 pm
    Hmm can you elaborate a bit on the last part? Personally, I'm a lesbian (although I am attracted to fictional men sometimes), and I find aromantic, asexual, and transgender people to be a sort of comforting pre... grisfox

    And i don't know where you live, but you should search and dig into the topic of autogenephelia and trans women invading women's spaces and how porn brainwashes people's brains