Lol?

Am I the only one who didn't agree with the comments saying bottom is a trash/selfish? I mean like, he hold an unrequited feelings for 17 years , it's not like he have time to even distance himself from the ml bcz ml is clingy and didn't want to be apart after rejecting mc. Which is the more reason mc can't get over ml and have been struggling to stop liking ml for 17 years. Honestly mc didn't even given a chance to get over the ml atp. And then when mc finally decided to heal himself and find someone else, suddenly the ml didn't like it cuz he want to be the closest person with mc? Despite the fact he didn't even like mc? What? Ppl saying mc is an incredibly selfish person for not recuperate ml feeling just don't want mc to be happy atp lol.
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Mc hold 17 years of waiting for ml and he can't even let ml wait for him for few months? Gee man. The biggest problem about ml isn't the fact he reject mc and stay friends with mc, it's the fact he didn't let mc heal and find someone new. That's incredibly selfish of the ml. In conclusion both kinda toxic for each other. I get both of their perspective— including ml but I didn't get why he didn't let mc date Luna. Well actually I do understand that he felt like his "friend" got stolen but then that's just going to destruct mc . He didn't want to date mc and yet he also didn't want mc to date anyone else besides him. How's ppl saying ml is the victim person but mc is selfish bro, mc accept the fact ml is an idiot which is why he took initiative to distance himself but then the ml didn't want him to. What, do you expect mc to actually go "omg you realize you like me now and want to date me? I agree!" After 17 years of one side feelings? . To me both of them need to distance themselves cuz time heals everything but then again look at how ml is when mc trying to get over ml lol