Yall ever get really annoyed about the shitty communication and toxic behavior but remember that these are men. Given some men are good at talking and being open and healthy but percentage wise i think it's a given that that is only a handful of men who were taught well whole the majority were hardly given the opportunity to learn EQ. I think a really good BL would be watching the developement of proper EQ in mc or ml. tho maybe that's why so many ppl like Lowtide in Twilights ML developement. Lol just a ramble bc I always think abt this when comparing theme to real relationships.
Yall ever get really annoyed about the shitty communication and toxic behavior but remember that these are men. Given some men are good at talking and being open and healthy but percentage wise i think it's a given that that is only a handful of men who were taught well whole the majority were hardly given the opportunity to learn EQ. I think a really good BL would be watching the developement of proper EQ in mc or ml. tho maybe that's why so many ppl like Lowtide in Twilights ML developement. Lol just a ramble bc I always think abt this when comparing theme to real relationships.