I can see both perspectives, your mom is probably just burnt out and when that happens it’s hard to control anger, maybe she’s running low on sleep, or stressed, etc (ik cuz my own mother is the same way) and it just makes them sensitive with outbursts
Still it doesn’t justify yelling at you like that, but at the same time I don’t think it’s appropriate to tell your grandma it’s annoying helping her (I work with old people and at that age they really can’t do much by themself anymore) but I’m sure you already know that so I won’t nag or bash you about it lol
All of yall need some family therapy!
Yeah I watch my grandma since I was like in 9 grade until I'm in university. I know it's wrong lol but after having to deal with her for so many years and her kid doesn't help but put her as my responsibility. It's getting tiring
Man... you're really going through it
Yikes yeah I can see why you’re burnt out. Hope things get better for you and you’re able to escape that negative environment!
Man I thought I have a bad time yesterday but today just a moment ago I was washing the bathroom at my own room. Until my mother band my door and call me to lift my grandma to pee. Then I said " this is so annoying" and I say this all the time but I directed it at grandma but for some reason when I got downstairs after I said it again directly at grandma face. My mother went her way in the kitchen and got a metal pot and started smashing and throwing out of the house and she started screaming at me in front of the neighborhood that I cuss at her and in front of my aunt house. She proceed to go outside and grab the pot and smash it in front of the whole neighborhood saying how I can't let her relax even tho it's a day off. That I don't know how much she fucking work so hard. I just escape to my room and cry cus wtf I even clarify that I didn't direct it toward and even grandma said it was toward her but she just started going off one me and when I lock my door and started screaming because I really couldn't handle it anymore. She goes off to my aunt house who is literally next to us and scream in there house about how to not mess with her and she'll be at me up and that I'm ungrateful. Why is Asian mom like this. I can't really tell anyone about it. So I'm just getting out of my chest since I can't just say hey I didn't cuss at my mom she is playing the victim cus they all shallow and believe the older you are. You are right