That she had really strong pride (I mean she said, she was too valuable of a person), or that she was also a person of value -as in valued/important person for others?
I think it was along the lines of she can bow her head of that's what necessary, but to do it for someone like BDH, she is too valueable a person to do that for him
That she had really strong pride (I mean she said, she was too valuable of a person), or that she was also a person of value -as in valued/important person for others?