the thing is why we find this friend annoying, he comes off a little self absorbed. he is ...

the thing is why we find this friend annoying, he comes off a little self absorbed. he is one of those people who self proclaim themselves as hopeless romantics and it seems like they cannot define themselves without being in a relationship. and I feel like those types of people seem as if they don't process their relationships and are tte type of friends who ignore you or flake when they are in a relationship and gets all consumed by them only to come to you with a broken heart and then they are always around you telling you how much they rely on you only for the next partner to come along and sweep them away. and it's just you can never rely on people like that even when you try to communicate they are always get emotional like I am sorry blah blah and somehow you come out of it feeling bad. and these people string you along as a friend and even as a partner. i don't like these sort of people. he may be later like oh I am not interested anymore I found someone new blah blah. but the emotional turmoil is about to be ass