Maybe it’s a cultural thing but her attitude of “no i don’t want it / i want it/ you...

MeloNelo3 May 5, 2025 5:49 pm

Maybe it’s a cultural thing but her attitude of “no i don’t want it / i want it/ you’re a pervert/ i’ll do what i want / oh no stop” annoys me to no end and feels really problematic in its subtext that dubious consent is foreplay/kinky (even if this is a rando smut webtoon). Am i alone here?

Responses
    n.v4cane May 6, 2025 2:24 am

    It is NOT and NOWHERE NEAR cultural twin dw the author is js a freak

    MeloNelo3 May 6, 2025 3:18 am
    It is NOT and NOWHERE NEAR cultural twin dw the author is js a freak n.v4cane

    Thank god bc i fully hate it lolol

    cameraonhold May 6, 2025 3:15 pm

    its foreplay, they actually stop when they *actually* want something to stop (at least in this story)

    Lumina97 May 7, 2025 9:10 pm

    It's just their foreplay lol they are just like that

    n.v4cane May 8, 2025 6:00 pm
    its foreplay, they actually stop when they *actually* want something to stop (at least in this story) cameraonhold

    Idk what skewed views on consent u have but when ppl say stop??? You stop no matter foreplay or what if they explicitly said stop and didn't say that it was ok to continue even if they said stop it's sexual assault alr Hate to be a debbie downer but this is js weird

    cameraonhold May 8, 2025 6:29 pm
    Idk what skewed views on consent u have but when ppl say stop??? You stop no matter foreplay or what if they explicitly said stop and didn't say that it was ok to continue even if they said stop it's sexual ass... n.v4cane

    clearly theyre both consenting and even stopped when she actually meant stop (biting her nipple). which is why in this case its foreplay. its a very case by case topic. you cant just broad sweep it with a statement like that.

    n.v4cane May 8, 2025 10:42 pm
    clearly theyre both consenting and even stopped when she actually meant stop (biting her nipple). which is why in this case its foreplay. its a very case by case topic. you cant just broad sweep it with a state... cameraonhold

    But it isn't??? girl is u good
    If someone says no, its a no??? that is literally the definition of not giving consent? no matter what the situation is u cant be doing no mental gymnastics to justify a very explicitly said no is actually a yes

    cameraonhold May 8, 2025 11:29 pm
    But it isn't??? girl is u goodIf someone says no, its a no??? that is literally the definition of not giving consent? no matter what the situation is u cant be doing no mental gymnastics to justify a very expli... n.v4cane

    if they agreed "no" does not mean stop before hand or if they stopped and the person that said no said keep going, then it is justified. this isnt mental gymnastics, this is basic critical thinking

    n.v4cane May 9, 2025 12:04 pm
    if they agreed "no" does not mean stop before hand or if they stopped and the person that said no said keep going, then it is justified. this isnt mental gymnastics, this is basic critical thinking cameraonhold

    Exactly my point twin but where do u see them agreeing smth along the lines of 'if i say stop don't actually stop cus im not telling u to stop even though im saying stop'
    Ur here saying its critical thinking, yeah it is cus u literally js quoted my point; if they agreed on some kinky bdsm safeword wtv shit beforehand then it wouldn't be freaky sa line happenings
    Reading shit like this thinking its okay is literally what skews people's view on consent cus now they try justify ts too

    cameraonhold May 9, 2025 4:10 pm
    Exactly my point twin but where do u see them agreeing smth along the lines of 'if i say stop don't actually stop cus im not telling u to stop even though im saying stop' Ur here saying its critical thinking, y... n.v4cane

    Not everything has to be fed to readers. Her "stop" clearly doesnt mean stop bc she likes when he keeps going. I read it more like "stop omg i feel so good" rather than "stop i dont like that".
    I feel like this is also backed up by him actually stopping in the most recent chapter and her saying "i dont like that" and him changing it up.
    We agree this is a case by case topic, and this story isnt the one to be attacking for it, thats really all im saying.