Tbh I understand FL feeling suffocated and hurt throughout their marriage, but technically, blaming ML for not showing love and saying he made her suffer doesn’t make sense to me. Because they both knew that it was a contractual relationship, ML made it clear from the beginning and even asked her twice that will you be really okay to be in such a relationship, and she said yes without hesitation. She felt hurt not because of him, but because of her feelings for him, and technically, he is not to blame here. And why would you say you wanna divorce because you wanna run away with someone else like that doesn’t make any sense at all lol if you wanna divorce that much at least say everything you wanna say to him and be honest, COMMUNICATE maybe that way you would’ve had a chance to talk it out before cutting all the ties. Also, she hides the son for all these years and her excuse is “he didn’t want kids so that’s okay”. And then she gets mad that he is mad about not seeing his kid all these years, and tries to gaslight him that “what would’ve changed if I told you?” Girl EVERYTHING lol how can you decide on his behalf without telling him and get mad when he rightfully wants to see his son. Im not saying ML is a green flag or tryna glaze him he ain’t that guy either, but FL also pisses me off too
Tbh I understand FL feeling suffocated and hurt throughout their marriage, but technically, blaming ML for not showing love and saying he made her suffer doesn’t make sense to me. Because they both knew that it was a contractual relationship, ML made it clear from the beginning and even asked her twice that will you be really okay to be in such a relationship, and she said yes without hesitation. She felt hurt not because of him, but because of her feelings for him, and technically, he is not to blame here. And why would you say you wanna divorce because you wanna run away with someone else like that doesn’t make any sense at all lol if you wanna divorce that much at least say everything you wanna say to him and be honest, COMMUNICATE maybe that way you would’ve had a chance to talk it out before cutting all the ties. Also, she hides the son for all these years and her excuse is “he didn’t want kids so that’s okay”. And then she gets mad that he is mad about not seeing his kid all these years, and tries to gaslight him that “what would’ve changed if I told you?” Girl EVERYTHING lol how can you decide on his behalf without telling him and get mad when he rightfully wants to see his son. Im not saying ML is a green flag or tryna glaze him he ain’t that guy either, but FL also pisses me off too