There is no "consent" in this BL.
It's blackmail, gaslighting, manipulation + 100 other red flags from the very beginning..
In rl, yes, consenting to one act means consenting to that one act only.
But in this BL, it's 'businesemen' mentality. That is they want profit, not common sense, not moral ethics.
You didn't think I'd do it only once right ?
You didn't think I'd do only sex right ?
So on and on..
Nanjo-sshi has an APPARENT choice to walk out of this arrangement any time. ANYTIME. It looks to me the uke is a goody two shoes who has troubles saying NO to others..
Even after this he'll continue to meet the seme.. And indulge him even..
Little by little.. So far he has only said NO to kissing, nothing else.
it's sad how it usually is like that in BL and more times than not you will stumble upon a good BL where consent is in place and no grape, but bc its such a rare find I think most ppl and I speak for my self that you kinda close your eyes to it and don't take it that close to heart bc it is what's in the market since we started reading, which is extremely sad and not right but bc there such a small storage of BL without it your start too look past it, until its something you can't look past.
Kinda concerned that so many people seem to not understand that coercion is sexual assault...? And that consenting to one sexual act doesn't mean you're consenting to all of them?