I think some people don't understand that realistic doesn't mean less frustrating but MORE frustrating. The characters here were frustrating as hell and annoyed the fuck out of me even if they are supposed to be realistic. Jaeha's trauma and insecurities were valid, but that doesn't mean he wasn't utterly frustrating and exhausting as a character to watch.
He projected his insecurities onto Eunho and it took them years as a result to reconcile after their initial fall out. Eunho was persistent, which was obviously annoying but he was also immature at the time. Of course it fucks with him hard when he gets ghosted by the person he had been pursuing for so long and he just randomly dumps him and runs away. You can empathize with Jaeha's insecurities but still be frustrated at how he handled his relationship with Eunho. They aren't mutually exclusive to each other. Also, Eunho is a spineless coward with no self-respect for himself.
Like I don't know but if Eunho was the bottom and Jaeha was the top, people would be far more outraged about him being shitty to Eunho rather than pages of defending a grown man dating an immature young dude and dumping him as he pleased. People saying "why doesn't Hanjoon get any hate" when his ass is getting dragged on the comment section of his own story like, are yall for real.
I think some people don't understand that realistic doesn't mean less frustrating but MORE frustrating. The characters here were frustrating as hell and annoyed the fuck out of me even if they are supposed to be realistic. Jaeha's trauma and insecurities were valid, but that doesn't mean he wasn't utterly frustrating and exhausting as a character to watch.
He projected his insecurities onto Eunho and it took them years as a result to reconcile after their initial fall out. Eunho was persistent, which was obviously annoying but he was also immature at the time. Of course it fucks with him hard when he gets ghosted by the person he had been pursuing for so long and he just randomly dumps him and runs away. You can empathize with Jaeha's insecurities but still be frustrated at how he handled his relationship with Eunho. They aren't mutually exclusive to each other. Also, Eunho is a spineless coward with no self-respect for himself.
Like I don't know but if Eunho was the bottom and Jaeha was the top, people would be far more outraged about him being shitty to Eunho rather than pages of defending a grown man dating an immature young dude and dumping him as he pleased. People saying "why doesn't Hanjoon get any hate" when his ass is getting dragged on the comment section of his own story like, are yall for real.