Pado is a man child for rejecting the one who broke his heart and rejected him first but haeil is baby yeah ok
They were kids. Haeil apologized tens of times. I wish Pado would honestly give him a clear rejection instead of having sex, acting possessive and giving him the silent treatment. Yes, it is giving man child.
Sure they were kids but haeil went no contact for years and only decided to talk to him again because he died. And now hes gonna ghost again.. now thats real immature
The difference between them is that one is trying while the other is not. Haeil is trying to fix his past mistakes (immaturity as u put it) while Pado is doubling down.
Also, pushing off a friend because you experienced homophobia for the first time as a literal child is not immature. It’s something understandable whether you think it’s forgivable or not. It’s not bad to be a bit more empathetic towards kids. I’m criticizing the actions of an adult, not a child.
I don’t agree with this framing at all. You’re almost making it seem like Pado is obligated to follow through in fixing what was a one-sided broken relationship.
He’s doubling down because he can, he’s not obligated to work in fixing a relationship he didn’t ruin. He doesn’t need to respond nor put in effort to hear out or see how Haeil will fix his mistakes bc he simply doesn’t have to. These specific critiques just don’t at all make sense to me lol.
Further, pushing off a friend because of things like homophobia and fear of your safety (socially, emotionally, physically, mentally, etc.) is something one can understand and recognize. However, when the person being pushed off is at the brunt of it & isn’t given an explanation (ONLY assuming, we don’t know every detail just yet) whatever a person’s reaction is after that is valid as long as it doesn’t cause harm to another person or themselves. Pado’s reactions and behaviors to Haeil rn were things that were influenced by the things he experienced as a kid, so to me the whole kid vs adult things falls flat as I’m recognizing it as a more cause and effect situation (if that makes sense (￣∇￣").)
Side note: If I misinterpreted anything or things I said didn’t make sense mb
It’s okay, I get your point. Everyone is allowed to go about it the way they want. I’m just criticizing him because it’s fiction but things in real life would obviously be much more complicated.
agree & completely understandable, hope i didn’t come off antagonistic just was also sharing my thoughts (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
I’m sorry but Pado is giving major manchild vibes. I’m sure he’s gonna get mad at Haeil again now even though he’s the one who kept rejecting him and being an asshole when Haeil was trying his best to apologize and make it right. I hate tops like him. Haeil my baby pspsps come here.