Honestly joke about pegging him not even kidding some guys are into it show them mommy stuff or hell get a anime nerd (like me )most come with that little kink xD just gotta show em
Also start as friends first makes it a lot easier for them to be more open to you it really questions a man’s masculinity when being up these kind of things but showing that he is still a man and a person you care deeply for all the same helps
A husband like him is all I wanted...