hai guys I have a question. I've seen this troupe many times over the years in bl, but I n...

honestly i never got it either. this is a wild guess but if i were to put myself in their shoes i guess maybe its the thought of someone making an exception/changing their views because of you. its satisfying to think about lol... also, yeah, same as a fellow lesbian, i find it a bit hard to crush on someone clearly uninterested in me... i cant really like someone if i doesnt feel as if they like me too. but were all different HAHA everyone has their own weird tastes and quirks

This happens in real life more than you expect. Have you ever socialize in a gay-only community like bars, pubs, or parties? You’ll be able to see and hear that a lot of gays and lesbians find straights challenging and attractive. It also gives them the superiority complex, just like how straight men finds challenging girls attractive.

If you want an easy peasy example, we have James Charles lmao

probably because they believe that they can change a straight guy’s sexuality idk i see it similar to how straight guys that go after lesbians are in believing that they can change their sexuality it’s an odd phenomena

prolly has to do with being masochistic or just wanting to feel pain emotionally & mentally

and well sometimes, you cant really control your romantic feelings about someone once you start noticing and finding out you have a crush on them or smth, regardless of their sexuality, and some people also tend to want and crave for something that's impossible to get, which can give them uhhh idk like an euphoric feeling? or maybe theyre just fucking delusional