Genuine Question

Xinxin May 14, 2025 7:11 pm

How do I stop being a loser? Lmao

Responses
    Doll May 14, 2025 7:14 pm

    first step is getting off this site

    seabi May 14, 2025 7:15 pm

    wdym?

    Xinxin May 14, 2025 7:16 pm
    first step is getting off this site Doll

    Damn you’re right

    Mia May 14, 2025 7:17 pm

    Stop thinking being a loser is a bad thing and just embrace it

    Xinxin May 14, 2025 7:17 pm
    wdym? seabi

    Idk just like improving one’s life. I guess I feel a bit fomo since others seem to be so happy. I just feel stagnant that’s all.

    Xinxin May 14, 2025 7:18 pm
    Stop thinking being a loser is a bad thing and just embrace it Mia

    Hmm fair point. That does bring comfort.

    seabi May 14, 2025 7:21 pm
    Idk just like improving one’s life. I guess I feel a bit fomo since others seem to be so happy. I just feel stagnant that’s all. Xinxin

    try to have some goals in life, even if u think they’re stupid or not enough. staying stagnant isn’t always a bad thing. do whatever you want to do in ur life

    gene May 14, 2025 7:25 pm

    arent we all losers

    Somberlyxx May 14, 2025 7:44 pm

    I feel stupid for saying this but genuinely the only thing that worked for me was starting gym and exercising moreand also doing volunteer work that helped me improve my socialising skills !! (i'm not saying you should do this obvsly I'm just saying maybe try to engage in things you would usually avoid) But well idk I still like being a loser despite making small changes to my life lol

    rize May 14, 2025 8:03 pm
    first step is getting off this site Doll

    ts so real

    Summer May 14, 2025 8:26 pm

    What helped me was reading or watching self-help / psychology related books or videos

    and making sure I take care of my priorities first before relaxing