I understand him.

drat May 18, 2025 7:58 am

It’s so difficult to be with someone and accept that they want to love you without thinking that one day that may come to an end. Being loved and loving someone in turn is such a source of happiness but also anxiety when you can’t believe they may stay forever. It is such a paralysing fear that personally I don’t even try to meet people anymore. I hope he can overcome it. He is halfway there.

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    wienermuncher May 18, 2025 8:17 am

    Avoidant attachment core. It’s worsened because as a woman I feel like people only want me to sleep with me and then leave