
That's one of the reasons why yeongwoon will never end up with him. He has known him since he was a middle schooler and the Taegu was an adult already back then. He has always seen him as a hyung that helped him in a time of need and nothing more. Now the ball is in taegu's court. If he tries to manipulate yeongwoon later to make him feel more dependent on him and tie him down to him, then he's out for me

He’d be a predator if he was grooming MC or liked him from day one. But I don’t think that’s the case at all?? I’ve seen no evidence suggesting he liked MC as a minor or was grooming him.
You can think it’s weird, but it’s not pedo or predatory to develop feelings for someone later in life even if you knew them closely as a minor. As long as nothing was going on before then and there were no feelings before or grooming, it’s neither predatory or pedophilic.

I’m not saying you’re wrong about Taegu’s influence/dominance in Yeongwon’s life, or that he might not still have influence, but I do think you’re 100% wrong by saying he’a predatory or that it’s inherently predatory. If Taegu was trying to abuse the influence he had, then yes it would be predatory. But he’s not.
As for Taegu’s influence on Yeongwon and whether it’s inherently predatory because of the relationship they had, MC is a full grown adult and can make his own decisions for himself. He’s no longer a kid reliant on Taegu. Sure, as kids we might look up to or respect older people and think they’re always right especially if we’re close to them or they have a mentorship role. But as you grow, eventually you become independent and form your own mindsets and thoughts. And usually, you no longer think the older person is right in every scenario. Heck, even in teenage years kids start seeing that their own parents aren’t always right.
So, Yeongwon might still look up to Taegu, but I do not think it’s enough to be inherently predatory relationship wise
The gangster liking the uke rlly rubs me the wrong way that was a grown ass man who’s known uke since he was in middle school, and befriended him when he was in a vulnerable state making it so he relies on him and finds it hard to push away from him. he’s so creepy like that’s a whole predator wdym you befriended a literal child and then fell for him