I understand Itsoumi's dream and all..but why y'all assuming he doesn't want kids because ...

Zora93 May 22, 2025 11:15 pm

I understand Itsoumi's dream and all..but why y'all assuming he doesn't want kids because of it? Yuki just guessed it but he never said it, no? I don't want him to give up on such a dream but I still want them together

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    w_iju May 22, 2025 11:27 pm

    Having a kid while constantly travelling is far from ideal and really not recommended at all. Kids need stable connections outside their parents; they won't be able to keep these connections if they never stay in one place for long-- people in general are like this, but it is much harder (and I'd say maybe impossible) for a kid to navigate this than it is for an adult. He might want kids in theory, but he probably doesn't want them in practice.

    Zora93 May 22, 2025 11:52 pm
    Having a kid while constantly travelling is far from ideal and really not recommended at all. Kids need stable connections outside their parents; they won't be able to keep these connections if they never stay ... w_iju

    Makes sense but I was thinking about something like still doing it, helping people to know more about it and finding the way to do it, and just travel a lil
    then when the kids a lil grown they can travel all together maybe in holidays?
    I mean..Itsoumi himself was only ten when he started taking interest in it.
    Seeing how he also need to save money to travel making me think it's not like he stayed home for a week and fly for months

    supercalifragilistically May 23, 2025 12:33 am

    it's not an assumption. it's putting together the context clues. literacy 101.

    supercalifragilistically May 23, 2025 12:36 am

    and really it's been foreshadowed this whole time starting w the itsuomi's private conversation w yuki's dad.

    Zora93 May 23, 2025 12:42 am
    and really it's been foreshadowed this whole time starting w the itsuomi's private conversation w yuki's dad. supercalifragilistically

    Girl
    Could you be any more rude? I don't remember what Itsoumi said to her dad regarding this topic.

    supercalifragilistically May 23, 2025 12:49 am
    GirlCould you be any more rude? I don't remember what Itsoumi said to her dad regarding this topic. Zora93

    I could.. considering I'm very good at being rude and this is my neutral. wasn't at all trying to offend you.

    Zora93 May 23, 2025 12:53 am
    I could.. considering I'm very good at being rude and this is my neutral. wasn't at all trying to offend you. supercalifragilistically

    You're not the only one who's good at it.
    It's OK just chill a lil It's just a story we enjoy reading

    w_iju May 23, 2025 12:56 am
    Makes sense but I was thinking about something like still doing it, helping people to know more about it and finding the way to do it, and just travel a lil then when the kids a lil grown they can travel all to... Zora93

    It's possible to work around it, but Itsuomi's priority is his dream, so "working around it" is not what he wants; as with everything, after all, there are ways to compromise, but Itsuomi still needs to want/accept that compromise. If he doesn't, then he's really not to blame.

    Plus, the fact Itsuomi started taking interest in this when he was 10 doesn't mean much; his kid might hate traveling, might hate having to leave behind any friends they make so often, and might hate Itsuomi for traveling so much too. And Itsuomi can't hide from the responsibility towards keeping his (hypothetical) kid's well-being; it should be a priority, not something he manages on the side of his big "day job."

    Like, it's already stressful to be a parent when *not* traveling, so this – together with the fact Itsuomi and Yuki would be first time parents – is a whole new level of it. It's very understandable that Itsuomi might like kids but doesn't want to have them.

    Zora93 May 23, 2025 1:01 am
    It's possible to work around it, but Itsuomi's priority is his dream, so "working around it" is not what he wants; as with everything, after all, there are ways to compromise, but Itsuomi still needs to want/ac... w_iju

    Yep of ofc
    Thanks for sharing your point anyway, even tho I want them together I can't agree more with the fact we can't blame him for wanting to follow his dream.