hmm imo its not misogyny its just the twink himself being annoying as fuck. I'll give u two examples: that fuckass twink from yours to claim, who led both men on, and then ended up choosing the worst possible guy ever. people were and are rightfully annoyed by him + he had the personality of a wet cardboard. and then we have haesoo from love or hate. honestly he was annoying at times too, and sometimes gets hate for it, but more people acknowledge him as being cunty as fuck. and he's pretty iconic too. its cuz even though he made messy decisions, he had his personality to back him up. there was more to him than just being stuck between two guys. the guy from yours to claim could never cuz he was just... there to be passed around between the two guys. i hope this makes sense.
oh oh but i do agree that ukes in general get criticized more, and I do think its cuz some people see them as the 'female equivalent' in the relationship, which is weird as fuck.
relating to this, i put some blame on the author for this imo. it is very common gripe i have with bl that there always has to be one guy who is feminine and basically seen as 'the woman of the relationship" like you said. its so stupid to me. why push on heteronormative roles in relationships that are already supposed to not be heteronormative?? like they're gay, just let characters be gay.
real asf i also think its weird how *most* bls are from the pov of the uke... like we get the fls pov in most straight romances. u cant tell me thats not deliberate. its even weirder when i see people saying they just cant get into a specific bl cuz its from the seme's pov like babe why does it matter they're both men??
YOU'RE RIGHT do you have any recs of ones from the seme's perspective cause now that you mention it i can't think of a single one.
UMM YES OF COURSE (a lot of them are mangas but all of them are great)
bokura no tsuzuki (highschool setting, great art, cutest characters ever)
the third ending (manhwa, cutest chasing arc ever)
neon sign amber (seme is straight and struggles with his sexuality for a bit so slightly angsty, but i loved it)
kimi no sumire (a masterpiece basically)
the boundary of delusion (manhwa, u must've heard of it. honestly its a bit like the other rapey ones but the ml (uke) IS SOOOOOO. HOT. I WANT HIM. so i would recommend.)
terano-kun to kumazaki-kun (highschool, really cute oml i love them)
unromantic (manhwa, omegaverse, ONE OF THE BEST ABO OUT THERE)
red string quests (manhwa, smutty as fuck, THE UKE IS SO HOT??? OM NOM NOM)
pink heart jam (another masterpiece what r u doing if u havent read this yet... its sequel recently came out too)
blue sky complex (this is a long running manga, art might put u off at first but trust me it gets sm better and they get way hotter. they start dating in the beginning and it shows their transition from highschool to college and further on. forget everything i said about the previous ones this is the. best manga ever honestly. so realistic too)
hoshi to harinezumi (AHHHHH CUTE CUTE AS FUCK UKE IS SO. YUM)
is there a universal hate/ dismissal for twink MCs (the uke) in love triangle bl stories? like, i see love triangle bl story then the comments either start to shit on mc or say mc should just gtfo or be a cupid so the 2 ml (tops) should be tgt. like bro, ik you're frustrated bc of mc's decisions, i am too tbh. but you shouldn't dismiss mc like that bc he's the mc that we're following in the story. we follow the story mainly in his pov. it's kinda disrespectful to the story itself. i observe that this also often happens whenever the mc is twink ToT but if he's not, then there's barely any comments like this... why? is twink mc uke a problem? or is it a form of misogyny (bc some readers see twink uke as "the woman" in the relationship)? i want to understand so pls enlighten me.