Well, that's easy for you to say, but for someone who has no family or friends, it's hard to have the confidence to do so.
Confidence and self-appreciation are taught by people who care about and love you. Just hearing it from a professional isn't enough even if you know what to do, you can't act on it if you've never experienced it for yourself.
I've experienced everything that happened to that woman, so I can write all of those things(⌒▽⌒)
The difference is I didn't decide to kill myself, but just live life as usual, and go leave my parent You know, it really feels like hell where I have to go out on my own and heal the trauma that I'm dealing with on my own.(⌒▽⌒)
And it just so happens that I have a very strong soul that doesn't give up much less to the point of thinking about suicide, all I do is raise my ego and make myself happy, and then it works just fine... So if you talk to me like that, it's a big mistake, I'm a person who really doesn't like to harbor anything on my own, I better yell and explain everything even if they don't care, and don't linger long with someone who can't appreciate me... So it really depends on how willing each person is to try to get out of the situation they are in and the courage to fight back then, the strength to survive and be happy... "It's really my personal experience"
And thank you (⌒‿⌒) for coming to my post to share your thoughts♡⸜(ˆᗜˆ˵ )⸝♡
Hi, I'm very sorry for what you had to experience and You did a very good job to make yourself out of that situation!
I may be wrong, but I think the choise of the author to did that with her character (and many other authors in other manhwa) is due the hight rate percentage of suicide in Korea. The topic is taboo in Korea since it's view as a weakness so not many ask for help when they are struggling. Also in the Media/news they talk about this, and this cause more suicide (many people attempt suicide after they saw a suicide... in hight school I had a colleague who killed herself and the school put a psychologist to talk with all of us to be sure we don't think to do the same).
I think the society we live can also influence, not only our own background.
This is only my thought about why the author could choise this for the FL, I don't mean to discredit anything you said. I'm really happy you could be strong and willing to do your sitiation better (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
No no it's okay, I'm just giving an example for in real life... And if it's in a manhwa story or manga of course it depends on the author... Because many are also author's who create stories through the realities that exist in their respective countries... I've also experienced something similar I saw my own friends treated like that, and after school I turned to the bullies and bullied them... I just wanted to teach them how the pain was treated that way, and the next day I reported their actions directly to the police... And let their faces be seen throughout the school To be honest, it makes me very satisfied... The moment I saw them with embarrassing faces apologising to my friend and as they were taken away by their parents in front of the other pupil's parents... Then a few days later they moved schools...
And now now that I'm working, I meet one of those bully faces again ewww, but she pretends not to know me(｡• ⤙ • ｡ꐦ) !!!
I'm so sorry (˚ ˃⌓˂ ) my youth was really wild（-""-；)
Suicide isn't a choice though. Even if you experienced that doesn't mean you'll feel what she felt because you and her arent the same people even with the same situation. This applies in real life too.
Thank you for sharing your opinion, but in my opinion, suicide is a choice., there may be many who disagree with my opinion, and I can understand that, what I mean here is a choice, because honestly every human being in the world has many choices to get out of the difficulties they are facing, regardless of their situation and circumstances. However, you are also right that no one understands the contents of another person's heart unless they talk about how they feel. But when someone commits suicide, it's a choice where they might think it's the only one, get out of the trouble they are facing... But maybe my opinion differs from others, if there's possibly a mistake in what I'm saying, perhaps you can correct it and explain it more openly. (⌒▽⌒)
No like actually like seriously I looked it up before saying what I said just to make sure.
Like: https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/family-resources-education/700childrens/2019/11/suicide-is-not-a-choice
And: https://afsp.org/story/suicide-is-not-cowardly
Though I’m not 100% sure but I haven’t seen anything that says it’s not true just based on what I’m seeing.
Woaah, let me take a look at the link you provided first, so I can better understand what you're saying. (⌒▽⌒)
Hhh, she was treated like a slave, not appreciated, still uncared for... This woman really have no brain to think ◔‸◔?
At least before killing herself, she could scream out her heart out, then throw all the things in front of her eyes, then slap them... Crying is also pointless let alone an animal family like they will never feel sorry for you... Make a big fuss until you can't say anything anymore, then move into isekai world, with a calm heart(｡• ⤙ • ｡ꐦ) !!!