bruh chill

Grooming describes the preparatory (or ‘lead up’) stage of child sexual abuse that offenders use to gain the trust and compliance of the child or young person (and those around them) and to establish secrecy and silence to avoid disclosure.

still very fucking weird

Yeah I agree, not grooming. We don’t know exactly when he grew feelings for MC…still not fucking with him though cause I love the ML too much XD

Yeah HELL NAH still fucking weird bro

yo i didn’t say it wasn’t! i just don’t think throwing around big words like “grooming” would be suitable. we are enjoying fictional content, maybe let things unroll before overreacting

haha u get me

Bro i really didn’t say it wasn’t honestly you should have been expecting weird stuff in fictional content no? i’m talking about the issue of basically throwing out big terms and overreacting when the character in question showed no indication or past attempts in pursuing a romantic relationship yet. i think readers can chill and see how it goes before the reactions, no?

People throwing big terms at an illegal site full of disturbing stories is really something mann

Ain't no way the hand shading and sole focus on that scene didn't ring your BL rings either you're js not observant or you didn't read it good enough I've read enough BLs to CLEARLY understand that bruh

Also I'm not trynna be defensive it's js mad weird to me how clueless some fujoshis are I really don't mean to come off head strong girlie

i respectfully disagree… and at the same time my whole issue lies in how people would casually throw out terms like “grooming” == the “grabbing waist” you’re referring to? this is literally only how we know he has romantic feelings for TG lol hoping he sorts it out soon! this still doesn’t imply he did anything in the past

i meant YW*

Honestly I still stand by what I said. Having read BL for over 12 years I get the gist of it But if you'll need proof for his feelings we'll get that further in the story. For me personally, grooming= becoming suddenly interested in the child you helped raise after they're legal NOT the waist grabbing but you'll get what I mean after further advancing the story lol

i’m sticking to the real definition of “grooming” because i do not believe these terms should be thrown around casually. i have also been reading BL for a very long amount of time LOL no i dont need proof i know he’s romantically interested! i’m just talking about advances

the major point is that no way i’m suggesting that TG helped raise YW because he wanted to groom him, which is what a lot of comments are suggesting! now THAT would be weird af