
Yk... that's actually one of the things that kinda bothers me. In most "childcare rofan" the child is rarely the biological child of the ML. And let's be clear, this is not about adoption. This is a 100% my problem with a "father" that's never been "in love" or in a relationship with anyone else besides the female mc before. Like, can we stop normalizing or rather romancizing this weird stereotype already? Think about it... 30+yo, rich, powerful, handsome (af), young looking, innocent (relationship wise), virgin, has a child (adopted) and is nice to the kid and mc but cold to everyone else... ain't that a weird setting for a dilf? If you swap genders... a 30+yo beauty with a child that's actually an innocent virgin... that... kinda sounds like bad corn no?
At least make them look a bit older... and experienced... it makes no sense them never have been with anyone before... and nothing wrong with adopting... but also nothing wrong with being a widower or divorced with a bio child...

you’re so real for this. i feel like it comes from this sense of having to “prove” the female lead is “different” or “special” like oh look at this cold hearted man who likes NO ONE but the female lead! yes! she changed him! only she changed him! he likes her and only her! i feel like it kinda ties into purity culture while also tying into the weird insecurity and fetishes some of these readers have with being a “savior” or “someone special” like brother…just because he fucked some bitches does not mean he won’t love you we really need to stop this narrative because it’s weird! it’s okay to have relationships and move on from them!
you’re telling me the title includes the word “father” and he’s not a dilf?? he literally looks like your run of the mill black haired ml. this is dilf bait