Yes he tried to kill her, nobody's dismissing that but he has no memory of it. Shes more afriad of him regaining his memory (she knows he wont hurt her in his current state) and its been years since that situation and months since he has originally woke up. No ones "letting him get away with anything bc hes hot" we're acknowledging he's quite literally being led blind, he only knows her as his wife, he . And his feelings here are valid to how anyone would feel, its not like she accidentally let it slip how hes "an employee" she deliberately said it. She uses him to her benefit alot and then discards him. What he said to her in this chapter is accurate, she doesnt know how to treat him and tbh he has every right to be mad. Like we can acknowledge shes traumatized and has huge paranoia and anxiety over his memory returning while also acknowledging shes avoiding accountability from a grave she dug herself
yall being mad at her is proof that yall would let anyone get away with anything just because they're hot. he literally tried to kill her and she's being blackmailed by his brother. plz give her a little grace, homegirl is just terrified and confused SHE'S TRYING HER BEST