episode28

Idk man but homegirl is so tired keeping up the charade (she keep slipping up, tired of making excuses to chaewoo etc.) plus chaewoos brother blackmailing her, even put a someone to py on them and she's still visibly scared of chaewoo (probably traumatized her + the paranoia and anxiety) so yeah being annoying should be the least concern about her.

I can understand being traumatized but her worry is his memory returning, she knows at this point he won't hurt her (unless he regains his memory). He properly confessed and instead of just rejecting his feelings (which would be valid, and hed understand bc to his understanding he use to abuse her) she acknowledges them but then turns around and makes it an excuse if his mental knowing thats not the case, atp shes trying to avoid accountability for what she told him when she was scared. We can acknowledge that shes traumatized and has overwhelmingly anxiety bc of him while also acknowledging she uses him for her benefit alot (the stalker situation) and then discards him afterwards.. not to mention its not like her calling him her employee just slipped out, she deliberately called him that infront of him knowing how he felt abt her, despite her acknowledging him as her "husband". His feelings here are honestly how anyone would react considering she basically just tossed him to another girl infront of him. This situation was extremely annoying cause it could've been avoided

SHE DOESN'T KNOW AT THIS POINT IF HE WILL HURT HER. IF THAT'S THE REAL NEW TURNOVER HIM. THAT'S THE WHOLE DAMN POINT. She doesn't know if she can trust him to not trying to kill her again especially after learning all his sweet talks and touches are just symptoms and probably not him. It couldn't have been avoided no matter how much you want to sugarcoat because after being shaken with the doctor's words, are you seriously expecting her to think about her charades??? Prior to them getting attacked by the wild boar she was struggling to come to terms with this. Now that everything is stable, she has to deal with the situation again with no time to process latest information about him. Make it make sense please.

Actually no, she knows hes being genuine shes just dismissing it as "symptoms" because his feelings for her are built off of a lie she made and she knows he wont feel that way when/if his memories return so theres no point in feeding into them; thats the whole damn point. Im not sure if you've already read the light novel but even if you haven't i wouldve thought that simple fact could be grasped with the littlest amount of media literacy. Also she didnt have to be told its symptoms, she already knew his feelings were based upon a lie she told she just couldnt explain his arousal towards her. Im not disregarding she was put thru another scary situation where they both could've died nor am i expecting her to come clean to him that she lied. As i said b4, 2 things can be true at once, SHE DUG HERSELF INTO A FUCKING HOLE bc she was scared of him (which is valid cause he literally tried to kill her) while using him to her own benefit then discards him but we can still ACKNOWLEDGE and EMPATHIZE with her extreme paranoia and anxiety abt this dude regaining his memories. At the end of the day she knows that in his CURRENT SELF he wont hurt her bc he sees her as his wife and is devoted, that much is apparent to literally everyone inside and out the book, shes scared bc she knows what he COULD/would do if he regains his memory. Which is why shes more comfortable with him until he brought up his memory then her face drops. Once again her calling him just an "employee" Didnt SLIP OUT it was an ACCIDENT. Dont you think if she was just as terrified as she was in the beginning she would've done her best to appease him again as a trauma response by calling him her husband? The situation she has to deal with now is of her own doing. I can acknowledge and understand her reasons behind smth while also acknowledging that she did this to herself by lying from the get go. Also idk why you got so unnecessarily aggressive but it aint a good look, nor does it get your point across any better.

Also explain how him being upset couldnt have been avoided when she was literally abt to call him her husband then switched up..make it make sense

Nobody is invalidating his feelings here??? What's not right are people shitting on her but still make some sort of explanations to validate his experience. Just say you're down for the ML and we can close the whole argument because the way you're talking is no way like someone who understands BOTH SIDES. People defending her was not pointing out how he shouldn't feel the way he feels about it. What people are saying they understand where she's coming from given the circumstances that she has been forced to go through with his pre-amnesia personality. Hell even when he's amnesiac he's volatile and she's always on edge on how to react around him. And here you're talking about sense huh

I've literally done nothing but validate her feelings while also pointing out how shes at fault aswell. I recognized her as a victim but the second im not eating her out to defend her behavior towards the ML its "YeW DoNt UnderStanD hEr AnD oNly LiKe ML" . This is what i mean by you being unable to grasp 2 things at once, Shes the one who put a label she couldnt handle. Was she scared so its understandable? yes, and ive alreadyacknowledged that but at the end of the day thats the choice she made. She was only exposed to his pre-amnesia ACTIONS (not personality) ONCE, and then she was exposed to his brother who threatened her. And also he hasnt really been unpredictable she just thinks he is bc she doesnt know him like that. In situations anyone would get mad he got mad and insecure, in situations anyone, that has sexual attraction to their wife, would be aroused he was aroused. SHE just doesnt understand it bc to HER she doesnt understand why he liked her other than her telling him shes his wife bc to her its make believe, but that doesnt go for him. The ML being upset could've EASILY been avoided bc she just made it harder for herself and now shes gonna be paranoid bc hes upset with her and she has truama. Media literacy is a real life thing, you need to pick up the novel. Lets close this since comprehension is new to you