abstain for a few days and you'll be fine
its a corny almond mom thing to say, but DETOX.
I was stuck in the same place for a bit, genuinely just stepping away for a little completely fixed it for me. Read some super cute stories for a while, occupy yourself with physical activity, start a lengthy art project that requires tons of dedication and time, and start learning a new hobby.
Eventually you'll get to a point where you don't even think about it. (also step out of your comfort zone when choosing books, trust me, one life-changing cute fluff story and youre hooked for life.)
I haven’t done anything for a month. Libido is on and off, random. I always read BL smut (swallow you whole, jinx, wet sand, etc..generic) and it’s just wow, scroll, but not a turn on at all.
How long is this detox, I haven’t touched myself for a month or more. I just don’t find vanilla interesting I think, I do bdsm a bit with my partner.
Can’t be my health since I’m male 20, I swear I am not addicted to porn lmao.
I haven’t read Shounen Ai for a while, but I do read danmeis. As for the hobby…yeah, I haven’t done much besides going out a bit and coming back.
So will I be turned on by vanilla sex afterwards? Maybe I just haven’t met sex with emotional fulfillment. Because when I do read vanilla sex, I tend to focus on how their feelings for each other is
How do I factory reset myself and be able to fap to vanilla smut again?