it is pretty accurate for real life imo. you just need to make sure you and your partner have discussed in length your limits, preferences, and a safe word (or gesture depending on your ability to speak at that moment). i will always recommend starting slow though, especially with any crops/whips/switches. unsafe play can unfortunately turn bad very fast.
I think it might really depend on the individual, but ive been reading a bit about it and there is a whole culture dedicated to safety practices in bdsm so that play is always safe and pleasurable for everyone involved
I think if you’re trying things out you will start slow and gradually ramp it up but tbh both them characters are extremely freaky from the get go and compatible lol (im kinda jealouss)
Oh now I get it,me being an over thinker i would be there thinking what if they don't stop when I say the safe word,what if they over indulge themselves?wow i think I would be 1 boring bdms partner huh
yes they are freaky and i do wish I possess such extreme bdms love.and thank you for the insight
Thats when you talk it out because not respecting the safe word is a really BIG thing that can lead to a lot of trouble within your relationship. This is unless you're doing a play such as cnc but even then, it NEEDS to be communicated beforehand. EVERYTHING needs to be communicated beforehand and aftercare and debrief for all parties involved is very important
Oh! am learning something new today and am loving it,and I think reading more about it will enlighten me as well
I think that if you're interested in learning more, you should look outside of manhwas because bdsm can be very misrepresented here or twisted into something toxic.
oh definitely. a lot of manhwa artists will turn the dynamic to the extreme without ANY discussion or prep. the only character i feel is kinda accurate is Myung Dae (BJ MD), and even then that manhwa is pretty trash.
Thanks love,I will try finding info even on Google and actual hardcovers if they have the info in books
I will check that trash manhwa too and see what is happening there
This is my 1st time reading such heavy bdms,am both intrigued and lil bit scared.like is it safe when people do it in reality?do you practice lil by lil until you reach the heavy stuff or you just wing it?i wouldn't mind trying it either