I honestly want Heeseop to quit it and find another man.

As much as I love heeseop (to the moon and back—pun intended) he knows exactly what’s he’s getting into please don’t try to baby him like he doesn’t understand when he clearly does. Heck even in the raw he mentions no matter what thatll he’ll still be waiting for jihan’s heart.

Idc about the raws since I haven't seen them yet. The point is Jihan's vague attitude. He likes to play with them. if he wants nothing but fuck buddies, he should have been clear about it and leave them alone the moment those men hope for something more than just casual relationship. Just find another FBs. I think seeing them fighting each other for his attention brings joy to him and his slutty ass. He's a WHORE

Of course he’s messing around? Did you read the first season? He stated clear to BOTH of them that he has no interest in dating, it’s only became unclear because he’s starting to feel for heeseop but also has all this other shit to deal with. And then continue to project random ass headcanons on him like “I bet he enjoys it” tf?? But then also write me off when I tell you a read the raws and you’re absolutely incorrect about him.

Not making him a villain, juts stating the fact that he's stupid and slutty whore.

Youre not stating anything new lmao just throwing jargon

But do you not see how it’s shitty on jihans part to continue to use someone like that? Yes there is no need to baby him cause at the end of the day he’s accepted this position but that doesn’t mean he deserves this treatment, no one does. I’ve seen you in a lot of these replies trying to excuse jihans behavior and I think you sound like a broken record. I don’t think it’s that hard to understand that hurt people hurt people and that’s exactly what’s happening in this situation. Neither of them deserve to have to put up with jihans emotional unavailability because of his pass trauma he’d rather project onto others instead of solve. But they like him so they do and he’s continued to exploit their feelings because he can. They’re both dumb but jihan is no better.

I doubt what i’m saying will change your mind though seeing as you’ve 100% committed to the role of jihans defender as if your getting paid for it so just take my comment as some fruit for thought.

Just because I haven’t talked about jihan’s flaws doesn’t mean I pretend it doesn’t exist or write them off lol a lot of the jihan hate does seem surface level and doesn’t even care to understand his pov either. That’s my only problem— I never stated jihan wasn’t a jerk and my opinion can and still change as I like to see other perspectives (even if it seems atm i dont) the story isnt perfect and it’s bit of a guilty pleasure atp for me—but I happen to read the raws as well and so my opinion on jihan isn't the same as 10 chapters behind which I feel is what influences what I’ve been saying as well.

I absolutely agree hurt ppl hurt others and I know that he will continue (unintentionally) if he doesn’t try to stop and question himself. (I think a recent chapter does attempt this with his character) it sort of reminds me of woojin from terrible romance who just jump into another relationship even tho he’s been mentally abused by his ex and ofc that reflected on the relationship but the blame in that story still goes to both of them, however leaning more towards mc. But to go back to jihan—I agree that covering up his hurt with sex is was a bad decision but jiyoung who is rich and seemingly available doesn’t seem to see/understand his hurt if this was a different story it would been better if he noticed and did it his best to help him before getting with him idk **just some writing food for thought. Anyways, I do apologize if I came off like a pretentious ass but I hope you can understand a lil of my thoughts too.

okay yeah i agree especially after reading a lot of the povs on him they are all very surface level and there’s a ongoing idea that he’s just a whore when that’s not true and no one is taking the time to actually realize why he’s like that.

Exactly thats my only problem with some of the jihan slander i feel if it’s about his decisions and personality sure. But out right calling him a whore just why??

I can't deny that Jihan ins't a whore. Yes, he went through a hell past, but his entire behavior now is solely his will. And this recent chapter kinda make him like one. These (3) men doesn't have an ounce of respect for him at all. Even the nerd guy. Just... How can you fuck a person you're claiming that you love and then go fuck him with other guys in a public place? They are all jerks! And why can't Jihan for fucking gods sake can't bring himself to refuse if he truly not like it? Doesn't he have a self respect at least? No matter how you justify his character, you can't deny that he is truly acting all shitty no different than whore. All of them needs to be rehab and a deep psychological counseling especially Jihan. It's like he can only think nothing but sex.

I’m not gonna lie heeseop throughout their entire scene felt out of character especially when you consider like you said he’s normally very loving (unless he got really upset and with jiyoung’s advice thought this would be the best get back idk) Jihan does indeed have crazy follow him but it’s just levels to who is more shitty. The story could’ve been realistic and took jihan out of that situation but nope at the end of the day, this is a BL.

Outright calling him a whore is doing him a disservice though? You act like him—in this scene he WANTED this to happen. There has not be a single thought bubble of jihan saying he loves the attention
wants this. He get embarrassed because his body reacted— he’s still a victim. How about jiyoung who only ever thinks of sex? He forced jihan and moon back into the car and thought this is gonna be “revenge” yet jihan is always the problem because he done it to himself and deserves it ig?

you sounds like a broken record, seriously. ugh! rambling and rambling and rambling, yet your whole point still pointing into one conclusion. You just can't accept the fact and so you defend him like crazy.

You literally go out of your way to reply to me? Maybe don’t? “You sound like a broke record?!!” And you don’t think you don’t? You don’t provide anything new or insightful in your comment since you cant actually refute anything without resorting to “whore and slut” so the only thing you can say is “you're repeating the same points that I refuse to listen/understand SO THAT MEANS YOURE WRONG!!!” Actually arguing with lobomites

because you're such a bumptious person. You're bound to refuse, refute and won't accept anything that against your point of view. You' were just like the character you're defending with your life, noh? ╮(￣▽￣)╭

And of course I would respond since you are the first to reply in my comment. dumb much?

and what do you call a person whose arguing with lobomites? aren't you the same, though?

You clearly didnt understand what I meant when I say that you continued to reply even after that initial convo was done you’re speaking more in circles then I am and somehow think you have a “gotcha moment” on me. So now you have actually nothing to say— as I said before talking to a lobotomite