i think Jiwan has avoidant attachment issues just like me, like we will feel overwhelmed when someone approaches and wants to have a relationship with us, we will feel so insecure and uncomfortable.
and yes, this attachment issues comes from our parents' parenting style during childhood. I can understand his feelings because my relationship with my ex also ended because of my avoidant attachment.
we also don't really want to have bad patterns like this, but our response is really hard to stop because it just happens. If this seen by a secure person, his act does look bad and evil, but getting out of this unhealthy pattern is not easy either.
i think Jiwan has avoidant attachment issues just like me, like we will feel overwhelmed when someone approaches and wants to have a relationship with us, we will feel so insecure and uncomfortable.
and yes, this attachment issues comes from our parents' parenting style during childhood. I can understand his feelings because my relationship with my ex also ended because of my avoidant attachment.
we also don't really want to have bad patterns like this, but our response is really hard to stop because it just happens. If this seen by a secure person, his act does look bad and evil, but getting out of this unhealthy pattern is not easy either.