Responses
Gyeonwoo isn’t doing all the emotional labor. Jin, Ido, and Gyeonwoo ALL avoid conflict in different ways, Jin runs, Ido deflects, and Gyeonwoo cares deeply and wants to give and receive love, but doesn’t know how to face problems, so he stays in his own comfort zone. He definitely suffers, but avoidance isn’t emotional maturity, all three have flaws and contribute to the issues together
Gyeonwoo is really doing 100% of the emotional labor in this relationship isn't he. He always needs to be the one understanding Ido or understanding Jin and trying to make them understand how to be decent humans. I get that the right partner can make you a better person, but my god Gyeonwoo is still just being psychologically abused in this relationship.
This story is lowkey so unsettling and yet I cannot stop reading it. Somehow it's also just so damn compelling.