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Aw, buddy... No. I don't even know where to start w/ you. Unless his dumbass bought a silicone or oil based lube to go with his sex toy, which most toys say NOT to use, that is water-based lube that dries up fast and washes away easily. He also did NOT lube up in the shower pre-sex, idk why you think he did, but even if that were the case it still needs to be reapplied occasionally and liberally. I cannot believe I gotta explain things from how lubricant works to why chicken eggs aren't fertilized to users on this site.
And no lube anywhere in sight... I'm like 90% sure if either of them had looked up one thing about gay sex, all the results would have said to USE. LUBE. We cannot go back to BL being allergic to lubed up holes, I've already done my time reading it