I can understand her

K999 June 9, 2025 7:40 am

Not really a good ending but she'll probably come to realize that's not the answer either.
I kinda understand what she's saying. She felt addicted to the guy in a way that consumes her, her body and mind but also felt meaningless since she wanted that and a long term relationship. She distanced herself from him and choose someone that did not make her feel so intense so she could still have self control and think of other things too with the excuse of finding love and a commited relationship. She poored herself into that dream that made her get through the day, only for everything to get crashed. So her faulty conclusion was so there is not love in the world, but I can't get obsessed with a person who only gives me pleasure so I'll just have meaningless sex with strangers with no hopes and expectations for the future. A very extreme thinking. She choose a man she was not attracted to because she believed him to be loyal.
Like, you should probably choose someome you are attracted to but in a healthy way. Like even those 2 men were opposite and extreme: one who sleeps with any woman and one who doesn't and is abstaining even from his wife. Be sure that there is a person in the middle too.

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