Yeah but you realise meeting up with your ex and lying about is a big issue in all type of relationships. Yes he needs someone to confide to but couldn’t he not say he was meeting a friend or an old sempai. Instead he lied and said he was going shopping. And when they tried to talk he kept on assuming things about the seme. No one is downplaying his struggles as a gay man and his need for community, it’s just the lies he told repeatedly. Many people break up over things like this, cause why don’t you trust me when I didn’t do anything not to loose it.
Repeatedly when I was reading this I was hoping for a situation where the uke has to prove himself cause it was always him misunderstanding the seme character, blowing him off and not communicating with the sprinkles of lies to top it off. People don’t like him cause of the lies. And you know insecurities can destroy relationships
This is one of the few bls where the gay character has actual struggles with his queer identity and insecurities surrounding his (not so) "straight" boyfriend, and yall hate him for it??? His senpai and arima are friends, he has every right to confide in him, they exist within the same community, they have an understanding Kitaoji just would not be expected to understand but they work it out anyways like im struggling to see the problem here and yall calling arima NAMES is so strange to see. God forbid an insecurity is actually an insecurity and doesnt just go away with someone saying "lmfao just dont worry about it"