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Gin.cat June 11, 2025 3:58 pm

Might be a bit personal, but has anyone ever felt that way like him and actually never stayed committed to a single relationship and now regret doing that? Just wondering cuz I'm a pretty straightforward monogamous person, so the thought never crossed my mind.

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    MadeInTaiwan June 11, 2025 4:36 pm

    I’ve never felt like a monogamous person. The pressure of being responsible for another’s feelings causes me a lot of anxiety. So I’ve always encouraged my partners to seek other partners. I’ve never regretted it or felt jealous.

    NoyB June 11, 2025 9:10 pm

    It might happen because of FOMO, I had a lecture about it.

    Gin.cat June 12, 2025 10:59 am
    I’ve never felt like a monogamous person. The pressure of being responsible for another’s feelings causes me a lot of anxiety. So I’ve always encouraged my partners to seek other partners. I’ve never re... MadeInTaiwan

    I see... good to hear

    Gin.cat June 12, 2025 10:59 am
    It might happen because of FOMO, I had a lecture about it. NoyB

    Hmm I definitely felt fomo but could never bring myself to act on it

    MadeInTaiwan June 12, 2025 12:33 pm
    Hmm I definitely felt fomo but could never bring myself to act on it Gin.cat

    Can you tell me what fomo is?

    ErroresDeLas3am June 12, 2025 1:50 pm
    Can you tell me what fomo is? MadeInTaiwan

    It's "Fear Of Missing Out" or something like that

    ErroresDeLas3am June 12, 2025 1:52 pm
    I’ve never felt like a monogamous person. The pressure of being responsible for another’s feelings causes me a lot of anxiety. So I’ve always encouraged my partners to seek other partners. I’ve never re... MadeInTaiwan

    I feel like that too, people are hard and I don't want to feel responsible for their emotions cause i am terrible at my own too
    I don't think I'd be a good partner really, so i prefer not setting down and enjoy life until i feel ready