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Don't bother, Stype is as dumb as wood and just doesn't want to understand. They think someone criticizing something=being upset. Even if it's fiction, it shows problematic stuff. By that logic, we could defend romanticized pedo shit, rape, and abuse in fiction cause 'ItS jUSt fIctiOn', but it still represents something and this has an impact on readers and society. Just like art always has had an impact.
I know your IQ is at room temp, but I'll try and explain it to you nonetheless ( I like a challenge)
- MC likes BDSM, but VIRGIN. MC doesn't know what he likes exactly or not
-ML has experience. ML has to ask for consent for new things the virgin MC has never done (even if he wasn't a virgin, they'd have to set basic rules. See how that works?!)
- slapping and choking out of nowhere during the FIRST ever BDSM play = bad = not good or healthy BDSM representation.
-youre dumb as hell, as always. Never ever have I seen one smart take of yours. That's impressive