Alright guys I read the comments and thought of this question please give ur opinion SO J...

Diabolic queen June 16, 2025 6:50 pm

Alright guys I read the comments and thought of this question please give ur opinion
SO Just like In the manga the fl is sleeping (drunk) and the ml goes for her boobs and try to kiss it
...so in irl if its a husband wife relationship is this acceptable ? And is this allowed in Bf gf relationship??


(I'm not experienced any other scenario yet so idk if it's assault or acceptable...cause I think it's ok if it's a man u trust and love)

Responses
    lego June 16, 2025 8:44 pm

    Regardless of them being your partner it’s still weird and disgusting to be touching someone’s breast or private areas when they are CLEARLY unconscious/drunk/asleep. It’s not about them being your partner or how much you trust them, it’s about boundaries and respect.

    Haechanahceah June 17, 2025 12:56 am

    hmm.. well if it's a husband then I wouldn't mind getting sucked on while unconscious and waking up seeing him hovering over lol.. but if it's a boyfriend then no nah!

    Kuinnii June 17, 2025 2:14 am

    theres something called CNC (consented non-consent) usually used for sexual intercouse where a party tells the other one words like no, stop or things like that but they dont actually mean it. They use a safe word to stop the "play".

    Once said this, you have to tell your partner ahead if you like these kind of situations! Otherwise, it could be considered as Rape or SA.

    Diabolic queen June 17, 2025 10:00 am

    Great insight thnks u all

    Lyland June 17, 2025 12:43 pm

    My girlfriend and I both really like waking up to each other's touch and kisses etc. Like its a turn on that we both agree on but we've been together 2 and a half years. I think of it wasn't quite talked about then its prolly not okay but you also have to think cultural norms. I'm in America and they aren't. Ya know? That and if all of those conversations happened in a manhwa I wonder ifthe editor or the publisher would say to take them out because it's "less sexy" and "not what the readers want" which isn't true but still just another perspective to think about when reading these.

    Diabolic queen June 17, 2025 7:25 pm
    My girlfriend and I both really like waking up to each other's touch and kisses etc. Like its a turn on that we both agree on but we've been together 2 and a half years. I think of it wasn't quite talked about ... Lyland

    Wow total agree with your view on this
    ....it would be fun and more realistic if they add it in manhwas(๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    manga-neko June 18, 2025 8:58 pm

    I definitely believe consent matters. Regardless if the touch is sexual or non-sexual. I told my hubby during the first year we were dating that if he's horny, he should just wake me up. He's irritatingly caring and was very torn between not waking me up from my sound sleep and just making do with feeling me up. I made him realize that it won't work in the long run so better to have a good time together rather than taking advantage of me and still sleeping somewhat sexually frustrated. And it has worked wonders. Also, he has full permission to touch me in my sleep but it's usually non-sexual. And sometimes absolutely essential for the well-being of my boobs T_T. We sleep naked and there are so many reasons my boobs end up squished in my sleep and sore when I wake up. So if he happens to wake up, he changes my sleep position, or really just gently handles them so they're no longer squished, god I love him so much T_T

    Diabolic queen June 19, 2025 6:59 am
    I definitely believe consent matters. Regardless if the touch is sexual or non-sexual. I told my hubby during the first year we were dating that if he's horny, he should just wake me up. He's irritatingly carin... manga-neko

    Ohhh soo sweet ....ur a cute caring couple ...god bless u both ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    manga-neko June 19, 2025 11:44 pm
    Ohhh soo sweet ....ur a cute caring couple ...god bless u both ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~ Diabolic queen

    Thank you~ I hope you got my point though. A trusted S/o will respect the boundaries and their partner's bodily autonomy, and with such a person, you can trust your body to be respected and cared for just like their own. Especially in your sleep.
    So all the comments claiming SA are valid because he's touching her body without permission while she's in no position to even know what's happening to her. Textbook example of SA. Just horrible.

    Diabolic queen June 20, 2025 6:55 pm
    Thank you~ I hope you got my point though. A trusted S/o will respect the boundaries and their partner's bodily autonomy, and with such a person, you can trust your body to be respected and cared for just like ... manga-neko

    I I totally understand and agree with you