It's not obsession, it's trauma dawg
He is obsessive and controlling. You can explain it with trauma, but that does not excuse it. I'm so tired of stories with these kinds of relationship dynamics. I hope the author gives it the attention it needs and don't start brushing it under the rug.
defo don't think it's one of those stories, after all woowon was never controlling originally. i think that sadly both seo an and woowon are struggling mentally now because of what they've been through and therefore the relationship will be a little unhealthy due to their trauma responses until they both get help and start getting better but its not like the author is romanticising their current relationship state, its clearly depicted as trauma and poor coping mechanisms
I'm disappointed this turned into yet another toxic relationship. I was looking forward to exploring the mental health journey of someone like Seo An, why did he have to be the obsessive type?!?