okay it’s not that bad… i think they’re well established and the dajeon (?) the uke does a good job at setting his own boundaries. it makes me anxious bc they’re both unstable trying to be stable for the other. boss does scare me bc everytime because he’s unpredictable and usually takes it too far. but i think they’re both damaged but also okay?? like they both came from a place of toxicity but they’re growing their communication and boundaries. I just hope they can create solid boundaries instead of leaning on extremes. it’s either he’s scared and wants nothing to do with boss, or he lets him do anything and it gets out of control. I CANT LIVE LIKE THIS
okay it’s not that bad… i think they’re well established and the dajeon (?) the uke does a good job at setting his own boundaries. it makes me anxious bc they’re both unstable trying to be stable for the other. boss does scare me bc everytime because he’s unpredictable and usually takes it too far. but i think they’re both damaged but also okay?? like they both came from a place of toxicity but they’re growing their communication and boundaries. I just hope they can create solid boundaries instead of leaning on extremes. it’s either he’s scared and wants nothing to do with boss, or he lets him do anything and it gets out of control. I CANT LIVE LIKE THIS