a lot of people don’t like this series but aporia(?) is a good BDSM one. it starts off with the mc forcing himself to like it bc he is in love with the ml(the ML genuinely has no idea that the mc has been lying to him and pretending). give it a try, it becomes very sweet and it’s a story I really like bc it puts such a positive spotlight on safety, trust and safe words for BDSM. I think that’s why the story started off the way it does imo
Have you read "basic guidebook to bdsm"? That one is like very consensual and practical too that starts with little plays but it's not very long hahaha ........I wish it was much longer than that.
Basic guidebook to bdsm is so goodddd.
True!!!!!!!!!!
i think this awakened something in me lol.
finally seeing an s/m relationship with safewords that are actually used and not just talked about once or never mentioned, little to no miscommunication, and a perfect lack of sexual assault [which is what most authors believe s/m is based around and it drives me insane]
if anyone has any lists of bdsm stories like this, please send them to me